# \[Event\] "Dancing with LUMEN" - Heideran VII Memorial Ball & Fund Raiser Date Auction **URL:** \ **Category:** Intergalactic Summit\ **Tags:** event, roleplay\ **Created:** [July 27, 2019, 11:49am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/event-dancing-with-lumen-heideran-vii-memorial-ball-fund-raiser-date-auction/178384 "2019-07-27T11:49:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 58
**Author:** ![Melisma\_Ramijozana](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/melisma_ramijozana/32/168474_2.png) [@Melisma\_Ramijozana](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Melisma_Ramijozana)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2019, 6:38pm UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/event-dancing-with-lumen-heideran-vii-memorial-ball-fund-raiser-date-auction/178384/58 "2019-07-31T18:38:08Z")
> [@Norrin\_Ellis](#): > > You ruined mud-wrestling by insisting that everything be your way, and now you’re acting like a petulant child about this, too. Actually, I ruined mud-wrestling to save the asses of three Amarr loyalists. I’ve never asked for thanks, but I’ll be dammed if I let a smartass punk who knows nothing about me ■■■■ on me for taking a punch that I really didn’t have to. That was _my_ event. I chose to close it. You want to tell me that I was a petulant child for closing my own event? Go ■■■■ yourself. > [@Lyra\_North-Onren](#): > > What would you want to see as evidence that it’s not? Is there something that would even prove that? Hold an event that is _actually_ accessible to everyone. Open dialogues with more people who don’t agree with you. Reach out to your critics. And spirits above, get some more income sources. > [@Lyra\_North-Onren](#): > > I don’t think this is really _just_ about an event with a few mistakes in the planning anymore. > [@Melisma\_Ramijozana](#): > > The second is, admittedly, more personal _You don’t say._ --- _[View the full topic](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/event-dancing-with-lumen-heideran-vii-memorial-ball-fund-raiser-date-auction/178384)._