# Today is my birthday and one guy sent me a eve mail wishing my family die from the coff **URL:** \ **Category:** General Discussion\ **Created:** [October 11, 2020, 3:22am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594 "2020-10-11T03:22:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 3:22am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/1 "2020-10-11T03:22:44Z")
today is my birthday šŸ° i live in low but wen Iā€™m selling some ā– ā– ā– ā–  i stay one day or two in jita or amarr this is extremely boring to me so i do station games i learned to do it few months ago and now i can say Iā€™m kinda good in it anyway ā€¦ i killed some guys today in jita how it works? i pick a yellow loot ā€¦ become suspect ā€¦ and kill the guys who shoot me, its a RLS ( real life skills , i commented about in this forum) ā€¦ its like a dance , you dock, get shot by vindicators and other battleships, sometimes you agro in front of everyone (1500 people in jitas local) , but the objective is to kill and not die , you have 1 minute to de agro and dock before local F u up well today , in my birthday i was offline and log in to see if i have sold something there was 3 eve mails ![fu](https://global.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/original/3X/3/b/3bd56a8b79613a0f28a920daabb48669b0685b60.png) as i said in the message ill not report the dude , but he wished my family dead he also claimed that i was spamming duels ,no, it doesnā€™t work , to easy , no one accepts ,Iā€™m to good for thatā€¦HE SHOT ME well why Iā€™m posting that? because this show how some dudes think PVP in eve is personal he lost a cheap ass ship but in his head Iā€™m SOOO EVIL that he felt in the right to wish my family dead today i had 4 nice conversations with people that had a lot of fun with the combats NICE PEPLE unfortunately it was eve chats and i ddnt save them but i save one eve mail to get the gist ![Captura de Tela 2020-10-10 Ć s 22.50.19](https://global.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/original/3X/c/3/c3f787f1937878d3a0f97c8ce73341190811dcd9.jpeg) REAL EVE PLAYERS ā€¦ 5 interactions , all positive , some guys flighted 2 or 3 timesā€¦ i dont want the first guy to be banned , im a old guy sticks and stones etcā€¦ but donā€™t be soft be like the other guys ā€¦ have fun in the gameā€¦ make friendsā€¦ donā€™t be a vul$@ its a game , we all have IRL problems if you can handle a game you probably wond last much IRL well thats itā€¦ luv you guysā€¦ EVE is a unique game , if you plan to ruin it , plz quit ā¤ ---
**Author:** ![Lily\_Inkura](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/lily_inkura/32/174143_2.png) [@Lily\_Inkura](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Lily_Inkura)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 3:40am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/2 "2020-10-11T03:40:13Z")
> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#): > > its a game, Iā€™m a father ā€¦ EVE is a unique game , if you plan to ruin it , plz quit No, you donā€™t get to hold the moral high ground here. Yes, there are times when players take it personally. And yes, many people even post on this forum with the specific intent of getting such a response. Just play the way you want. Others will do the same. And if either ā€œsideā€ breaks the EULA in the response, then file a ticket. No need to post here. End of. ---
**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 3:41am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/3 "2020-10-11T03:41:53Z")
> [@Lily\_Inkura](#): > > Just play the way you want. Others will do the same. And if either ā€œsideā€ breaks the EULA in the response, then file a ticket. No need to post here. End of. šŸ˜ƒ ill not play your game ---
**Author:** ![Lily\_Inkura](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/lily_inkura/32/174143_2.png) [@Lily\_Inkura](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Lily_Inkura)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 3:42am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/4 "2020-10-11T03:42:28Z")
> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#): > > ill not play your game Exactly the correct attitude. ---
**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 3:43am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/5 "2020-10-11T03:43:43Z")
yeah to me report is bad because i donā€™t think that idiot have powers to kill my family and i donā€™t want to take his toy i wish he becomes a more mature person btw i think eve should be a adult game its not suited for kids ---
**Author:** ![Lily\_Inkura](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/lily_inkura/32/174143_2.png) [@Lily\_Inkura](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Lily_Inkura)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 3:51am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/6 "2020-10-11T03:51:13Z")
> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#): > > to me report is bad A threat to family is upsetting, whether the threat is ā€œrealā€ or not. You were obviously upset enough to ā€œreportā€ it here. So use the system, it is what it is there for. ---
**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 3:53am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/7 "2020-10-11T03:53:16Z")
> [@Lily\_Inkura](#): > > A threat to family is upsetting, whether the threat is ā€œrealā€ or not. > > You were obviously upset enough to ā€œreportā€ it here. So use the system, it is what it is there for. im not upset im not reporting because no one besides me know the player ofc i looked at your kill board and to me you are just a mouth making noises you donā€™t have any experience in the game and to me your opinion is not valid sry ---
**Author:** ![Xeux](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/xeux/32/428022_2.png) [@Xeux](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Xeux)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 3:57am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/8 "2020-10-11T03:57:06Z")
People can be pretty crazy. The internet just makes it worse. Sometimes people manage to work through their issues by behaving badly in video games - I always thought that was a good thing. The best thing about CODE. was interacting with the nut jobs like this guy you found on the Jita undock. You should have invited him to a private convo and offered to sell him an ā€œundock permit.ā€ Comedy gold. ---
**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 3:57am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/9 "2020-10-11T03:57:48Z")
i think " i hope you family die" is analog to some discussions here at the forum to me its important to share because i can show to some people that were in the ā€œmiddle of the roadā€ how aberrant some people behavior can be in regard to pvp ---
**Author:** ![Shipwreck\_Jones](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/shipwreck_jones/32/274382_2.png) [@Shipwreck\_Jones](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Shipwreck_Jones)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 4:00am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/10 "2020-10-11T04:00:30Z")
> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#): > > you donā€™t have any experience in the game and to me your opinion is not valid > sry Okay, heā€™s not trying to weigh in on capital ballance or something. Heā€™s talking about player behavior and how to respond to it. Doesnā€™t matter if heā€™s been playing 1 day and canā€™t find the undock button, or if heā€™s been here since the beta. His opinion is just as valid as any. ---
**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 4:01am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/11 "2020-10-11T04:01:07Z")
> [@Shipwreck\_Jones](#): > > Okay, heā€™s not trying to weigh in on capital ballance or something. Heā€™s talking about player behavior and how to respond to it. Doesnā€™t matter if heā€™s been playing 1 day and canā€™t find the undock button, or if heā€™s been here since the beta. His opinion is just as valid as any. maybeā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![Lily\_Inkura](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/lily_inkura/32/174143_2.png) [@Lily\_Inkura](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Lily_Inkura)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 4:01am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/12 "2020-10-11T04:01:39Z")
> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#): > > ofc i looked at your kill board ā€¦ and to me your opinion is not valid I donā€™t pvp. EDIT: removed comment. ---
**Author:** ![Xeux](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/xeux/32/428022_2.png) [@Xeux](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Xeux)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 4:02am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/13 "2020-10-11T04:02:31Z")
It wasnā€™t really much of an opinion. He was just telling Tutu to shut up, basically. He didnā€™t even wish Tutu happy birthday. šŸ‘Ž ---
**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 4:03am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/14 "2020-10-11T04:03:23Z")
> [@Lily\_Inkura](#): > > I donā€™t pvp. > > Why post on here if you were not prepared to listen to observations? i read your post i just think your contribution is invalid to me i have the right to measure people in the game based on the solo kills to me you donā€™t worth that much but its just my opinion and opinions donā€™t worth that much to , like you ---
**Author:** ![Lily\_Inkura](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/lily_inkura/32/174143_2.png) [@Lily\_Inkura](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Lily_Inkura)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 4:04am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/15 "2020-10-11T04:04:13Z")
> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#): > > i just think your contribution is invalid to me Fine. I perfectly understand and accept that. ---
**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 4:05am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/16 "2020-10-11T04:05:01Z")
> [@Lily\_Inkura](#): > > Fine. I perfectly understand and accept that. ok , you disarmed me ill probably like you in a few weeks it happened before ---
**Author:** ![Lily\_Inkura](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/lily_inkura/32/174143_2.png) [@Lily\_Inkura](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Lily_Inkura)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 4:06am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/17 "2020-10-11T04:06:22Z")
> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#): > > i have the right to measure people in the game based on the solo kills > to me you donā€™t worth that much And I think that is to completely misunderstand the dynamic of this sandbox game. My complete ethos is to avoid pvp. Solo Iā€™m good (ish) at. Gangs kill me every time. EDIT: I meant that nicely. Not trying to pick a fight. (I die enough as it is !) ---
**Author:** ![Archer\_en\_Tilavine](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/archer_en_tilavine/32/461718_2.png) [@Archer\_en\_Tilavine](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Archer_en_Tilavine)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 4:06am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/18 "2020-10-11T04:06:31Z")
> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#): > > ok , you disarmed me > ill probably like you in a few weeks > it happened before šŸ˜†šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ ---
**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 4:09am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/19 "2020-10-11T04:09:31Z")
well ā€¦ donā€™t wish bad things to other players family its rude edit: > [@Lily\_Inkura](#): > > EDIT: I meant that nicely. Not trying to pick a fight. (I die enough as it is !) join the amarr militia and ill give you 20+ million to get a ship and start šŸ˜ƒ edit2: i did it ā€¦you donā€™t look so new but have a destroyer on me edit3: its so late i though it was a good ways to argue how there is a bad perception on pvp players but it ended in a grudge betwenn me and @Lily_Inkura who appear to be a good person after all i have nothing more to say and if its not asking to much , moderation plz close this topic šŸ„ŗ ---
**Author:** ![Dravick\_Afterthought](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/dravick_afterthought/32/282017_2.png) [@Dravick\_Afterthought](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Dravick_Afterthought)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 5:02am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/20 "2020-10-11T05:02:29Z")
> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#): > > ofc i looked at your kill board and to me you are just a mouth making noises > you donā€™t have any experience in the game and to me your opinion is not valid You are an arrogant prat. Just because someone hasnā€™t got an impressive killboard (you wonā€™t find one for me either, this is an alt because of people like your emailer) doesnā€™t mean theyā€™re not allowed to express perfectly valid opinions on social matters - which is what this is. [Next page](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594.md?page=2)