# Today is my birthday and one guy sent me a eve mail wishing my family die from the coff

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**Category:** General Discussion\
**Created:** [October 11, 2020, 3:22am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594 "2020-10-11T03:22:44Z")\
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**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 5:07am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/21 "2020-10-11T05:07:50Z")

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> [@Dravick\_Afterthought](#):
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> You are an arrogant prat.

it was a arrogant comment by design  
i guess you reap what you sow, i deserve any bad comments after that …  
but i still think that i hope your family die is worst  
and there is a tribalism thing between pve and pvp players  
it kinda prove my point

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**Author:** ![Dravick\_Afterthought](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/dravick_afterthought/32/282017_2.png) [@Dravick\_Afterthought](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Dravick_Afterthought)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 5:16am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/22 "2020-10-11T05:16:15Z")

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> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#):
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> > [@Dravick\_Afterthought](#):
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> > You are an arrogant prat.
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> it was a arrogant comment by design  
> i guess you reap what you sow, i deserve any bad comments after that …

Sorry about that, I have a kneejerk reaction to anything that smacks of ‘elitism’.

> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#):
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> but i still think that i hope your family die is worst

I agree absolutely, and I think you should have reported him to CCP - every time someone like that gets away with it, it reinforces their belief that they can do whatever they want regardless of its effect on others.

> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#):
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> and there is a tribalism thing between pve and pvp players  
> it kinda prove my point

I do both, does that mean I’m doomed to be at war with myself for ever ?? 😭

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**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 5:18am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/23 "2020-10-11T05:18:30Z")

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im against the report thing  
unless is something super serious  
never reported anyone  
i wish i never posted this topic

> [@Dravick\_Afterthought](#):
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> that smacks of ‘elitism’.

yah I’m elitist as ■■■■ 🙃

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**Author:** ![Dravick\_Afterthought](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/dravick_afterthought/32/282017_2.png) [@Dravick\_Afterthought](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Dravick_Afterthought)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 5:23am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/24 "2020-10-11T05:23:39Z")

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> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#):
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> im against the report thing  
> unless is something super serious  
> never reported anyone

I’d regard _“but he wished my family dead”_ as super serious myself, especially in these days of relatively easy doxing…

> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#):
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> i wish i never posted this topic

You reap what you sow… 😜

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**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 5:24am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/25 "2020-10-11T05:24:46Z")

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> [@Dravick\_Afterthought](#):
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> I’d regard _“but he wished my family dead”_ as super serious myself, especially in these days of relatively easy doxing…

yeah but its like calling the cops to a 5 years old

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**Author:** ![Dravick\_Afterthought](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/dravick_afterthought/32/282017_2.png) [@Dravick\_Afterthought](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Dravick_Afterthought)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 5:26am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/26 "2020-10-11T05:26:54Z")

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A 5 year old who grows up to try and kidnap a state governor, perhaps ? These things need nipping in the bud.

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**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 5:28am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/27 "2020-10-11T05:28:46Z")

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dude was crying on the rookie channel  
because he lost a cheap ass ship  
that he used to SHOT ME

i wish ccp was more up front with the marketing of the game  
YOU WILL DIE

this guys are clueless

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i mean its HS , i can only shot people who shot me first

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 ![Captura de Tela 2020-10-11 às 02.46.21](https://global.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/original/3X/2/0/206772834cf2e1f6bdb6a4d46a596978c263d9f6.png)  
😂

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**Author:** ![Lily\_Inkura](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/lily_inkura/32/174143_2.png) [@Lily\_Inkura](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Lily_Inkura)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 8:34am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/28 "2020-10-11T08:34:40Z")

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> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#):
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> i wish i never posted this topic

lol. I was thinking the same about my reply.

It was indeed a knee jerk reaction on my part. How _ **dare** _ a PvP player (worse, a _ **baiting** _ PvP player) feel upset when a few opponents are rude to them in response.

Think it made more sense in my head than it did when posted.

Happy birthday by the way. And continue to fly _ **un** _-safe.

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**Author:** ![Inxentas\_Ultramar](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/inxentas_ultramar/32/385922_2.png) [@Inxentas\_Ultramar](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Inxentas_Ultramar)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 8:39am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/29 "2020-10-11T08:39:05Z")

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Play stupid games.  
Get stupid prizes.

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**Author:** ![Lily\_Inkura](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/lily_inkura/32/174143_2.png) [@Lily\_Inkura](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Lily_Inkura)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 8:39am UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/30 "2020-10-11T08:39:10Z")

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> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#):
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> join the amarr militia and ill give you 20+ million to get a ship and start 😃

Very civil.

Tried FW only very recently. On an alt. Built a blingy ship that had dropped as a BPC.

Got bored _ **avoiding** _ fights. Couldn’t help it, it was just muscle memory of running away. Decided to try LS belt ratting instead to see if I could spawn and then kill a higher-level clone soldier. First belt _ **started** _ with a clone soldier. Sweet. Then the last belt finished with a mordu legion.

It was red. It was an npc. I could kill clone soldiers, so I flew straight at it.

There is a reason i don’t do PvP.

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**Author:** ![Solstice\_Projekt](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/solstice_projekt/32/503293_2.png) [@Solstice\_Projekt](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Solstice_Projekt)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 12:50pm UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/31 "2020-10-11T12:50:04Z")

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> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#):
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> today is my birthday 🍰

Happy Birthday, mate! 😃

Sincerely enjoy your cake and your presents …  
… and ■■■■ off in a happy manner! 😃

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**Author:** ![Solstice\_Projekt](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/solstice_projekt/32/503293_2.png) [@Solstice\_Projekt](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Solstice_Projekt)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 12:52pm UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/32 "2020-10-11T12:52:33Z")

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> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#):
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> as i said in the message ill not report the dude

No one wants such people around.  
Report him and you improve the game for everyone, including yourself.

There is no honour behind not reporting these people.  
They deserve having their asses kicked so hard the smell of ■■■■ comes out of their mouths.

> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#):
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> because this show how some dudes think PVP in eve is personal

That’s because, for him, it is.  
It’s literally all he has to be proud of himself.  
Yeah, literally. If he had anything else, he wouldn’t react so poorly.  
Spreading his name would be a community service.

Btw, local chats are saved automatically unless you turn that off.

Feel hugged and happy birthday!

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**Author:** ![Kezrai\_Charzai](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/kezrai_charzai/32/394578_2.png) [@Kezrai\_Charzai](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Kezrai_Charzai)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 1:00pm UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/33 "2020-10-11T13:00:32Z")

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No idea what you’re even posting about. You know how the game works. You know that some people get ticked off when you blow up their ships, even if it’s a cheap rookie ship.

Who cares what some angry kid says in an in-game email? EVE is about consequences. If you can’t handle the occasional angry email from some rando on the internet then don’t shoot them.

Clearly, if upset players are something you can’t deal with, you’re in the wrong game. Crying about it in public won’t achieve anything.

On other topics, happy birthday. Try to share some cheer instead of tears. It’s better for you.

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**Author:** ![Jayce\_Fitzpatrick](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/jayce_fitzpatrick/32/383289_2.png) [@Jayce\_Fitzpatrick](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Jayce_Fitzpatrick)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 2:03pm UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/34 "2020-10-11T14:03:00Z")

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Happy birthday man.

Cheers in cachaça.

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**Author:** ![Xeux](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/xeux/32/428022_2.png) [@Xeux](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Xeux)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 2:03pm UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/35 "2020-10-11T14:03:22Z")

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The OP can delete the topic, can’t they? I mean, if he wants to. I think that is something the forum allows.

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**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 2:19pm UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/36 "2020-10-11T14:19:24Z")

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> [@Kezrai\_Charzai](#):
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> No idea what you’re even posting about. You know how the game works. You know that some people get ticked off when you blow up their ships, even if it’s a cheap rookie ship.

im not used to it  
im used to gf gf  
dint realize this things are consequences of casual pvp  
first time someone wish my family dead  
you talk like its a acceptable thing that happens all the time

btw it was not a rookie ship , i don’t kill rookie ships

> [@Xeux](#):
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> The OP can delete the topic, can’t they? I mean, if he wants to. I think that is something the forum allows.

if i click in that x all the posts are gone?

> [@Solstice\_Projekt](#):
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> No one wants such people around.  
> Report him and you improve the game for everyone, including yourself.

i believe in second chances , i was kinda drunk wen i posted this topic and i regretted lol  
kid is probably young and will change his ways

> [@Solstice\_Projekt](#):
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> Btw, local chats are saved automatically unless you turn that off.

were? i have a conversation with a dude that was using a alt in a raven and a frigate that was the contraire of the negativity of the mail  
we had a lot o fun

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btw i think this topic between the lines show how there is a bad reaction from some players to pvp…  
even here in the forum i got some poison because people don’t understand the risk reward involved in “bait” pvp

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**Author:** ![Xeux](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/xeux/32/428022_2.png) [@Xeux](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Xeux)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 2:20pm UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/37 "2020-10-11T14:20:02Z")

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> [@tutucox\_Khamsi](#):
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> if i click in that x all the posts are gone?

I have never done it, but yes, I think so.

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**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 2:22pm UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/38 "2020-10-11T14:22:33Z")

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> [@Xeux](#):
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> I have never done it, but yes, I think so.

im afraid the x just delete the first post

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**Author:** ![Xeux](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/xeux/32/428022_2.png) [@Xeux](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/Xeux)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 2:22pm UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/39 "2020-10-11T14:22:55Z")

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Let’s all find out together.

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**Author:** ![tutucox\_Khamsi](https://sea1.discourse-cdn.com/eveonline/user_avatar/forums.eveonline.com/tutucox_khamsi/32/430743_2.png) [@tutucox\_Khamsi](https://forums.eveonline.com/u/tutucox_Khamsi)\
**Post date:** [October 11, 2020, 2:23pm UTC](https://forums.eveonline.com/t/today-is-my-birthday-and-one-guy-sent-me-a-eve-mail-wishing-my-family-die-from-the-coff/272594/40 "2020-10-11T14:23:05Z")

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ok lets go

edit:  
x dont do nothing lol

edit2:  
dont have permission to trash can

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