I get it completely. Its the exact reason why most of us left null to start our own group because of some neck beard and his epeen. We have a few simple rules, like 1. dont be an idiot, 2. be on comms and in fleet when flying with the group 3. dont fly through trade hubs with a ship over 100m (we are at war alot, LIKE A LOT A LOT LOL). Simple, yeah? No sperglords here, just a bunch of grown men with families and careers and foul/morbid senses of humor.
Maybe you’d be a good fit here: