Hey Nihi,
I’m with Parroto Social Club. We’re a small corp that focuses on small gang pvp. We are an independent corp and live in NPC null so we don’t have any big tidi fights to worry about or entosis timers to grind etc. we just do the fun stuff 
We are active in tourneys like you ask for and most of our membership would have been involved with some good teams in the past. We competed in Eve NT lately and are competing in the upcoming Anger Games.
Being based in null, most of our pvp is null sec but pretty sure there’s not that much different. It all boils down to killing the other ship quicker right?
While we have some guys who fly caps, this is by no means a requirement. A single toon with someone who is motivated to go roaming, learn from mistakes and have some fun on comms is far more valuable to us than a titan pilot with 20 alts that never logs in.
We know RL comes first. It isn’t an issue for us. We expect guys to go on roams regularly enough but it’s up to you when. Also, if you have RL stuff that prevents that or that you’ll be away for a few weeks or whatever that’s no problem either.
Anyway, I think that covers most of the points you raise. If you want to see more about us check out our post:
If you want to talk more about things don’t be afraid to ask. Also, you’re welcome to join us for a roam anytime. Hop on our in game channel or send me a message in game. I’m on most days EUTZ and we have EUTZ roams every days.
Hope to talk soon,
Trouble