Hey Kara,
I get the whole bittervet looking for a chilled place to BS and do things…it was pretty much the reason I made this alliance as I wanted to do things at my own pace and without the drama of nullsec leadership groups and generally being d**ked around by people who just had a vested self interest only…Our main thread is HERE, have a look and see if any of this appeals to you and maybe I will hear back from ya!
Lark/