I think you would fit well over here at Silentrix .
We are all about no-drama, and definitely respect real life. We are established geographically and diplomatically to have the most options for content. We are capable of sending fleets all over the place, and since we are on a rising trajectory, it would probably be a more worth while time investment than other places which seem to be on the down trend. We are blue to the SLOW and their nullsec region, and have access to their industry, as well as our own alliance (Hisec Mining Consortium) structures.
You definitely do not want to join a place that will make you a “number”. We are more about making a friend crew.