Bryan Haze [F-OFF] is the place for you!!! Based on your description you enjoy PVP which is our main gameplay. There are a lot us people in F-OFF with families and we respect EVE-LIFE balance. Hit us up in game at F-OFF NOW or we can have a one on one voice chat on discord. Hit me up in game Relsey member of Federation of Freedom Fighters.
Take care and looking forward to chatting with you.