I think DMSQD would be a solid fit for you. We’re part of Init and the Imperium giving you stable access to space to live in and tons of content on a small scale with Corp roams and blops as well as alliance level ops where we kill caps, rorqs and super regularly. All the good bits and none of the drama of a large Corp.
We’re all US based and play late night ustz quite often. Feel free to check us out. If you have any questions you can hit up any of our directors or recruiters.