Hey Jegrey,
Your situation sounds exactly like many here at Filthy Peasants. We’re a US TZ lowsec PVP corp that is based out of Solitude. We all understand that RL comes first and many times you can’t play due to life. However, even with that said we still have a lot of active people who put too much time into this game (me). Come and join us in our purging Solitude of Cavemen. 