Hey,
I think my corporation may be a good home for you and your friends.
We recently returned to the game after a good hiatus and have been enjoying ourselves with a lax PVP culture, and chilling with old friends. Many players who have returned have joined up to make that culture as laid back but fun when you are on the game.
We have a wealth of content opportunities and reside in Vale of the Silent one jump from Jita, with everything we need just within reach. The core philosophy is to login, pew pew, rat, mine whatever, log off. the entire corp direction is to support that play style.