I’m just past 90 days in, and if I could offer one guideline to new players, it would be to manage your expectations.
My corp moved to nullsec maybe a month or two ago. The news was heralded with reports that made it seem like ISK would rain from the heavens, our skills would train themselves overnight, and we’d live in a lawless paradise where we could do as we please.
My first night in nullsec, I lost a Covetor due to a PvPer, and they gloated, practically hanging my corpse on a pike as a trophy. Over the next few weeks, I spent most of my ISK, couldn’t get any help from my alliance, and half the corp quit.
Talk about a kick in the nullsec.
I whinged and wailed and bemoaned my losses. Some people threw money at me to replace what I lost, but it wasn’t about the money as much as the fact I was minding my own damn business and somebody went out of their way to be an ass because they could.
Like, you know, in life. Some people will just be jerks because they can be, and no amount of whinging is going to change that. In life we call them everything from “that guy” to terrorists and the like; they come in a wide variety of flavors.
As in life, surviving in New Eden requires a certain skill set and knowledge base. You have to have the skills to use your ships effectively, by which I mean you need to know the fastest way to warp ass out of Dodge, the right ranges to keep your drones at, what your shields can handle, how to use your alliance comms, and more.
The difference between New Eden and real life is you’ve been training for the latter since you were born. Being wary of the dangers you expect comes second nature to you. When you join New Eden, you’re born all over again and start learning from the ground up.
Manage your expectations. You’re going to lose before you win. You’re going to get frustrated by those losses, and you’re going to get impatient with the time it takes to recover. Or, you’re going to ring the bell and quit.
New Eden isn’t for everyone. Ask me in six months how I feel about PvP, and I may very well tolerate or even enjoy it. Right now I don’t, but it takes time to get adjusted to new things. When it comes to the promises people make about a certain sec or activity, remember: if it sounds too good to be true, it is.