I think Deadman’s squad might be a good fit for you. We offer kind of a “best of both worlds” approach. We’re a smaller tight knit Corp of long time friends and veteran players that like to do blops and small gang roams together. We also have access to larger alliance fleet when we want to get our f1 monkey on as well as good space to keep up our PvP addiction.
We have an 18+ rule, however from your post you seem relatively mature so we may be willing to make an exception after talking with you.
Good luck in whatever your choice. More info linked below