I think we have a great home for you in Guns. We have a decent EUTZ, enough people to go out and enjoy small gang stuff but not so many that you get drowned out on comms, you can get to know the people you fly with. We are part of Rekking Crew, but are still pretty RL friendly with very few CTAs. We dont take ourselves too seriously.
Check out our ad and hopefully we can chat soon (it is dumbed down a bit so that newer players can understand all the lingo, so dont let that put you off)