Morning/Evening!
We at Guns may be of interest to you as we have a lot going for what you are looking for, even though yes we hold shallow sov in Pure Blind. We are independent but have friends (but no blues to keep it interesting), have stratops occasionally but are indeed a corp where we know RL comes first. We are a group of mostly middle aged dudes who enjoy eve as the hobby that it is or can be. At 150ksp youll be able to jump straight in and catch up on whats changed in a chill environment. Standing Fleet gets a fair bit of action during late EU time, so if you wanted some small gang PVP then there is a decent amount of it either locally or roaming into the neighbourhood.
Have a read of our ad if you get a chance, and hopefully we can get a chance to chat. Cheers!