Sounds like you might be a good fit for us. Purely nanogang (3-5 man gangs that are role-focused) with frequent T3C wormhole brawls. We’ve got a nice group of guys that have been playing together for years, very effective PvPers in small numbers. Just had a brawl the other day (8v14) and won, alongside pretty other solid ones everyday.
Keep in mind we don’t really fly inexpensive vessels, and we multi-box in most fights. With very small numbers fighting 2:1 you need any advantage you can get.