You have this backwards.
High-skill PvP veterans don’t really care about you. Insta-popping your weak mining ship is temporarily amusing but gets boring fast (unless you rage and produce some entertaining hate mail), and there’s no real financial incentive to do it.
The people who hate the idea of instanced mining and want you to STFU and go back to WoW are miners, not PvPers. High-skill miners don’t want you having access to instanced mining because when low-skill players like you are allowed to succeed it creates excess mineral supply and drives prices down. Smart and competent miners want you to continue failing until you ragequit.
Deal with it. Life isn’t fair. Either figure out how to benefit from the unfairness of EVE and exploit others to get wealth and power for yourself or go back to WoW.
if eve continue like that the game will die in less than a year
People have been saying that since 2003. It still hasn’t happened yet.