I use:
TriExporter with newest granny2.dll to unpack the directory with models and textures from EVE files
Granny Viever to see what there is actually in the files.
Grnreader98 with newest granny2.dll to extract models from .gr2 to .smd with submeshes.
Milkshape trial to convert .smd to .obj
Blender for remodeling and texturing.
For me the models exported are sometimes not opening tho. Same with textures. Triexporter exports, but the files are not usable. I have SOE female armor extracted tho, and in obj format.