If someone compares in-game losses to real-life ones the problem is with his way of thinking not the game nor its players.
Also if someone blames others for his mistakes and failures instead of learning from them then that is also on him not the game nor others.
This meme below perfectly illustrates the above two and how it is a flawed way of thinking and how such people tend to never get out of the cycle of trying to come up with excuses instead of facing the truth about their mindset.
