Hey Iron,
I recently returned to the game as well after a 6 year hiatus. Same boat as you, I was looking for a corp that I could relearn the game with and also understood that I didn’t want this to become a job. I recommend jumping on discord and checking out ELTC.
You get the benefits of a first rate alliance, some of the best space in the game (we live in Vale of Silent so we’re very close to Jita) and a corp of friends that don’t just play eve together.