i can suggest you the corp im in: EndlesRain
its a pretty chill corp where you life wont interfere your fun in this corp. they are pretty organized for their size. im not sure about the industrial infrastructure part but they where always able to provide me the things i needed if it was not to expensive of course.
im an lonewulff and i where able to dodge joining the teamspeak. they would love to see you talk but you dont have to except if you take part on something that requires you to join a voice. else like moon mining for example they talk in ingame chats too.
just follow the rules and you can do your things. they are willing to help and are pretty nice, you dont get forced to do anything. their nullsec space is quiet too in terms of enemy activity but if you search for action, theyr aliance got a pvp corp. i think they do faction warfare too.
however, if you are interested and got more questions you can join the corps Discord . sorry for my bad english btw lol