You’ve never exaggerated a negative aspect of someones personality or situation when in a argument? Really? Emotion has a tendency to accelerate far beyond reality. Maturity isn’t a guarantee.
I’m not suggesting telepathy Arrendis, only a hope that one day a more sophisticated language arises than the one we are using now, one that has caught up to the emotional and intellectual development we have made as a species.
Until then there will be many misunderstandings, as an ill-fitted language struggles to convey the inumerable subtleties of feeling. I feel Aria explained this well.