Wrong section or not, you seem to be a person who fits well into my corporation, UMAH.
We are a RL first type of corp, no obligation and no intention to make EVE your duty, keep it to the level of fun! (personally got 4 kids myself so fully understand your situation).
We are out in NPC Null, pretty much having a station network so you can do what you feel, production, mining, reactions, PI, pvp, well… it’s up for you to decide! We are, from what I consider, a very “newbro” friendly corp, got alot of old veterans returnee so you aren’t alone to catch up to alot of changes and “re-learn”.
If it sounds like a good match, Join Umah_Pub channel ingame. I’ll link you the corporationr recruitment thread aswell so you got some more info.
Fly safe, and I hope you find what you are looking for 