Thank you very much for sharing your esteemed grandmother’s stories, these were very interesting.
My clan believes that when a person dies, before rites of death are performed and kin lets them go in their hearts, they wander the tribal lands as ghosts, that can turn malevolent or be snatched by the Amarrian God. Thus we must never abandon our dead without proper letting-go, but we also must not cling to memories of those gone ahead but go on with our lives. “Fun” fact: capsuleers are “ghosts” in this sense, dead but not gone.