Why am I terrible at PvP?

@Netan_MalDoran, I was on Sisi when I discovered I was terrible at PvP. I mean I always knew but this confirmed it. I watched my buddy tear apart a BC with his Raven. I asked about it so he traded me his raven and he got in the exact same ship he raped the other guy in. He then began to destroy me like I was a blind, deaf, skill-less alpha noob who had never seen a computer before. I know it’s not the ship that makes the woman so what is it?