Have you noticed the discrepancy between the numbers of players needed to do such things?
That is the core of the problem.
single Capitals are as powerful as fleets of, as you put it yourself:
And how many times do I have to say, that i am not whining over being ganked by unreasonable force.
That is not the issue.
The issue is that a few people with a huge amount of ISK can knock out fleets of many multiples the player numbers of the cap fleet.
That is not really how EVE was intended to be.
Especially not in Low-sec.
Low security space is intended to be the middle ground of PVP. And now that capitals are there in massive numbers it is closer to Null-sec PVP.
Throw Capitals back to Null. I don’t hate capitals, I hate what they are doing to the gameplay outside Null.