I don’t know if I have the words to articulate correctly/effectively what I “read” from the posts you exchanged with Yiole; but please bear with me because I feel, what I see, as the miscommunication in your exchange of posts in this one instance exemplifies the miscommunication that, to me, appears to happen frequently when discussions on highsec take place.
you can read the following or not, as it’s apt to be long winded, but I, at least, feel this post is worth the effort of writing.
Yiole posted her list of items, and you read the post and drew the conclusion that the Abyssal sites were an example of what Yiole’s list was describing.
And you replied in good faith, “Abyssal sites”.
Since Abyssal sites are not what she is describing, in no way shape or form, she took offence and replied sarcastically to your post. (At least, this is my interpretation of your exchange up to this point.)
Since you had replied in good faith, you were in turn put off by her flippancy in responding.
This is the crux of the conflict in discussing highsec issues, our own personal interpretation of the words written. In person communication involves many layers, if Yiole was speaking to you in person on this topic once she realized you were misinterpreting her points, she might have tried to clarify her concerns. A forum format does not allow for the instant assessment, evaluation, and reexamination of one’s effectiveness in persuading others of your position, or point you are advocating in support of.
I have read many of Yiole’s posts regarding this topic, and have read the posts where she tried clarifying her position so others might better understand what she is trying to communicate.
Given my experiences in dealing with highsec pve players, I truly feel she has identified one of the areas of dissatisfaction within this group. How large a part of the player base this group comprises I have no idea. But, if you give her the benefit of the doubt, and simply don’t “close her out” or dismiss her, in terms she and others may, and in some cases do, find insulting, I believe she will continue to refine her message until you and many others can understand what she is trying to communicate.
I believe I understand what her point is, and can only advocate for you to continue to have a dialogue with her.
I believe it will prove worth while.
It took me some time to understand what the issue is. The feedback you found worthwhile in my post is a distillation of how I interpret her points.
The fact you took the time to respond at length to my post gives me hope you will look beyond the surface of the back and forth nature of forum communication.
What you found useful…is what Yiole (I believe) is talking about/advocating for…it was just filtered through me.
The message is the same…just with a different “accent”.
I wish you all the best.