If you’re going to make this personal, know that I am a small time industrial player who makes her home on the fringe of Gallente highsec. I have never shot first at another player in my life.
I do mostly desk work (diplomacy and planning) and logistics (lines of supply / maintenance of infrastructure) for my corporation, and we prefer to be at peace so we can carry on with our activities unimpeded.
That said, I often advocate against increased safety in highsec. Perhaps it is my Gallente Federation blood, but I want capsuleers to have more freedom, not less, in highsec. I was against the wardec changes, and I will continue to oppose rules that keep small groups of pvp minded players in highsec from being able to engage in pvp. It’s less about what’s good for me, and more about what’s good for the game we all play.
When I encounter a player in need of advice or direction, I ask them what they want to do, and I help them do it. If they want to do indy stuff, I can help them do that. If they want to be a suicide ganker, then I know someone who would be willing to help them and I refer them to that person for more guidance in their chosen field knowing full well it’s going to bite me in the butt later, but a happy player is good for Eve, and what’s good for Eve is good for everyone who plays.
From Eve-University to Red vs. Blue, there are groups who’ve made it their purpose to either teach new players or get them involved in the game, and neither of these groups will demand a great deal of time or effort on the part of the player.
Many of us signed on to play the game that eve is, and have invested many years creating our experiences. We just want to continue to play the game we were sold when we bought it. We don’t begrudge those who don’t want to play. We don’t want people to take away the game we have by lobbying to change the rules to the point it’s a different game.
I’ve yet to see you ask for help with any problem, try to learn anything, or try to improve your gameplay in any way. You aggressively demand that rules be changed so that you (and the nebulous body you claim to represent) don’t lose anymore. Other than Calvin and Hobbes, I can’t think of anyone who gets away with playing a game like that.