Okay, let me try to break it down for you:
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Harassment doesn’t have anything to do with the gender of the person being harassed. Males might respond to it differently than females, but the underlying action of someone harassing you (e.g. saying that they will r■■■ you) is equally bad regardless of whether it is directed at someone who happens to be a male or a female, since the person making the harassment simply operates under the assumption of the latter. So just because most targets of harassment happen to be males behind female avatars, doesn’t mean that there’s very little harassment of females, because the actual gender of the recipient isn’t a qualifier for whether or not harassment is taking place.
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“Incessant” is relative to the type and severity of the behavior in question. A baby crying every couple of minutes can be described as “crying incessantly.” Gun violence in Chicago can be described as incessant if a few hundred murders happen every year in a city of millions; it doesn’t have to mean that ten people a minute are getting mowed down with automatic rifle fire. Likewise, harassment in EVE can be described as incessant if it happens every few days, or every couple of dozen of social interactions with other players; it doesn’t have to mean that literally every single player you talk to is threatening to molest you to death.