That’s to be proven before being used as an argument.
No it’s correct. If you are destroyed or stolen good, as a new player, it can be devastating in term of ratio of assets lost and a reason good enough to leave the game. Reason why suspect baiting is forbidden in starter system (and yet you can see some people doing it)
And yes, most experienced players will just ignore you and your obvious trap. By experienced, I mean experienced with the mechanisms and how to deal with them.