If you as a developer care more about breaking records than providing an enjoyable gameplay experience for your users, someone is indeed unrealistic here. And it’s not me.
I do not need these slugfests, they are not engaging, they are not enjoyable, they are not fun. What I want is a game that lets me shoot my guns when I press F1-F8 instead of deciding for me that I should not be allowed to activate a single gun for 4 hours. I watched movies during these fights instead of watching my clients on grid and do things with them. If I sit in a world record breaking speedster, I cannot afford to lose a single second of attention to the landscape or my mobile. I have to laser focused on the instruments and the salt flats ahead of me. EVE is nothing like that. Big fights are not like world speed record breaking endeavors, they are more akin to torture.