I have observed that the community at large is not toxic. It’s just that the only people gregarious enough to be communicated with are also toxic.
Everybody else simply does not communicate because they are sick of the toxic minority. And this minority as usual get most of the attention.
It’s like bad drivers. You remember the knucklehead who crossed the line because he was too mindless to put the damned phone down but you don’t remember all the others who didn’t.
Yeah, I think that’s a good way to describe a lot of the arguing that goes on on the forums. It’s a bunch of nerds bickering over make-believe spaceships. Don’t get me wrong, things can sometimes get a little heated, and people do sometimes step over the line with personal attacks, but I don’t think what goes on here rises to the level of toxicity.
Of course, the forum community tends to pounce on what it considers whining. So, “forum whiners” might have a far different perspective.
The eve community is a mature but unforgiving one. It becomes whatever you make of it. Act like an adult and you’ll be treated like one. Act like a spoilt brat and you’ll be treated as such. If you’re going to insult others, expect to be insulted.
Don’t focus on the negativity and negative people. There are a lot of very nice players on EVE, they outnumber the douchebags 20 to 1 but they also concentrate on positivity so less vocal.
That is not true and you know it.
Play with the nice people and leave the mean ones in their corner.
Have to learn to ignore the trolls and the toxic players most players I have met on Eve have been really cool to hang out with. I have only met a couple of players that have been toxic and I just blocked and ignored them.
Quick, give me your opinions on capital balance, resource scarcity, and whether you prefer Kirk or Picard so that I can hate you too.
For real though, you’re going to find good and bad actors in every community. Stay away from turds, and play with the guys that you enjoy playing with. If you currently find yourself in a toxic corp. Get out. Go find one that isn’t toxic. I assure you they exist. In fact, Sixth Empire might be a good place to start looking.
the game is old
a lot of people like the game
rufus and dufus come here to say the game is bad and our community is toxic
they expect a e-hug
terrible…