OP
This particular forum isn’t a good source of facts unless you’re collecting information in the psychology of EVE players.
I suggest you try:
https://forums.eveonline.com/c/pve-gameplay-center/pve-ships-modules
or
https://forums.eveonline.com/c/new-citizens
Neither are perfect for your question, but there will almost certainly be people with the necessary knowledge in both forums - the trick is getting a polite answer 
I’d suggest you reword the original post so every part of it is absolutely neutral in tone. As you’ve seen here, many experienced players are “drama queens”. You can’t change that, but a boring request for facts is less likely to trigger an outburst
BTW if it was me I’d remove the “asking for a friend” part. It seems likely it’s a purchased character (which is EVE-legal of course). You’re not going to get useful information from people who imagine this matters, so ignore them.