No, this is the part where you look like an idiot, because you do not realize that I was not talking about you or me or any capsuleer, I was talking about the people of Floseswin. I could (and might have to because it is not the only battle around) still conceivably go “nah I’m just gonna sit this one out” but they cannot.
Whether it counts as a war is not about whether you or me or the lovebirds can opt-out from fighting it, Aria Jenneth. You have gotten very good at looking away from all evil you chosen kin causes. Indeed you serve as a good examble of someone blinded by love - not romantic love, but love just the same.