I do not know if I just got lucky or what. When I came home today, I was unable to launch the launcher at all, it would crash immediately no matter if i tried to reinstall the game or clear all of the caches.
I found this thread which was from a couple years back;
I followed his instructions and the only thing that did not work was clicking cancel. So I let it update that launcher and bam, everything worked perfect from that point on. No crashes, no lag, no disconnects.
I am not sure if its anything, but I figured Id post it up hopefully it helps someone.