Real pvp is between 2 or more semi consenting players killing each other in many glorious ways.
For highsec its wars/FW or killing criminals or suspect/baiting activity.
For lowsec/nullsec its just consenting by closing that little box the first time you jump into the system warning you of the dangers.
Anything outside of that is predatory and shouldn’t be allowed in the game. That little warning you get jumping into low/null for the first time doesn’t pop up when simply undock for the first time meaning its not by design to be a dangerous in highsec. Several mmorpgs have designated areas for pvp and designated areas for no pvp. Eve by design seems to have loosely been based on the same concept while making it seem like we have more freedom with it but humans, like the plague we are, have found a way to ruin that.