I believe that, but you do seem to equate someone shooting your imaginary spaceship with real-life violence. It's not.
Just to be clear, when someone is violencing your imaginary space assets, they are not necessarily trying to insult you or make you feel bad. It is not automatically a slight, nor some defect in their personality. It is someone playing a silly spaceship game where shooting other players for either fun or space profit is a legal game move. You don't have to like losing a ship or your stuff, or make it easy for them, but you shouldn't begrudge someone for trying to engage in PvP with you, or be personally offended, in a game where that is not only allowed, but intended.
You of course can feel about non-consensual PvP and the rest of it however you want. But for new players reading this thread, take these Golden Rules to heart and you will have a much more pleasant and fun time in New Eden.