Get it into your sad little pathetic mind that calling everything you disagree with toxic is not conductive to having a proper discussion.
I’ll link you a great find by @Black_Pedro in Balancing an mmo
EVE is a PvP sandbox. You can sandbox all you want, but in the end other players may decide they want to engage you in PvP, and the developer of the game is on the record that this is proper - even encouraged - player behavior.