That is… not a good way at all of dealing with service members like yourself and members in general.
It may not be my corp, but I have seen this ad on here for Current & Former Military personnel, maybe you could inquire with them
On another note, that experience may have been extremely distressful. I am also gonna leave a link to a community that may help you if you haven’t already heard of them.
Stay safe out there o7 I may not be from the US, but thank you for your service.