Ok there’s a thread out there that’s kinda bogged down in the fact that the OP’s solutions are really unpopular, rather than bury this in that thread I’ll ask this as a long-shot but seems do-able…
Yeah I kinda figured people wont be that nice and youd have to already have trust with them. And that means you might as well already be in alliance or corp with them and be flying with them.
If you saw the other thread you’d see that guy seems to think he can stay solo. Looks like theres no reason to for trust reasons haha
Both Spectre and Bombers Bar are well known NPSI communities.
Other groups run NPSI fleets that they advertise too.
Spectre run several fleets a week across all timezones, and you can safely join the fleet without being blown up.
That’s the way to go if you are looking to join a fleet of strangers. Stick to known NPSI communities and the advertised NPSI fleets of other groups (eg. Waffles NPSI/NBSI roams).
In fact, a commonly used trick used to jump onto targets is sending out a fleet invite to unsuspecting visitors. This actually happend to me once, where my fleetmate and i wanted to fleet up in lowsec instead of before, with me assuming it was him sending me an invite.
It wasn’t.
Realized the error quickly, though, and got out of harms way.