Hello @C-Kat. Welcome to the forums.
I hope I donāt sound argumentative when I say that your experience with EvE is different than mine.
Paying for the subscription does open up more options, but I had fun with faction warfare on an alpha alt.
Well this depends. Some of the advanced ships do take time and training (a strategic cruiser, marauder, or capital ship will take a long time to skill into). But one can do a lot with a t1 ship. EvE is very different than most MMOās in the sense that frigates do not become obsolete. If a new player that gets the 1 million skill point referral and finishes the career agents, will get a small fleet of ships and will be able to fly them right away.
I have learned much from reading other peopleās posts. I think the forum is helpful. Certainly not a ācrack houseā.
EvE is the different than many other MMOās in that when one loses a ship, it is lost, it does not just respawn. But if a new player completes their career agent missions, they will receive many good ships as rewards for completing the missions. I would caution new players to stick with frigates though, until they have an income stream large enough to make losing frigates trivial.
āDonāt fly what you canāt afford to loseā is a good rule of thumb.
This is just flat out wrong. There are many āsoft skillsā that a player needs to learn that will make them much better players. A player with maxed out frigate skills in a faction frigate is going to die if they fly straight into an artillery armed battleship. A player with half the skill points in a t1 frigate, but knows how to manually pilot the ship and zig-zag toward the battleship will be able to get in close and get the tackle off.
I have spent most of my time in EvE in a small corp that is just me and some friends. I have been in a largish null sec alliance as well, but the most fun Iāve had in the game was in small corps of friends. If you donāt want to join a large corp, start out on your own, or join a small corp. EvE is a sand box, and how you want to play the game is up to you.
EvE is a niche game. My son once expressed interest in playing the game, but he did not like it, and went back to first person shooters. Thousands of people do like EvE however. To each their own.
I hope you find your niche in the game @C-Kat. From your post it sounds like you have not found it yet. If you want to play EvE, but feel burnt out try doing something new. There are many different playstyles and many good youtube videos out there that can help you get started. Iāve been many things in EvE, but I have never been an explorer. I am just learning how to do this, a total newbie again.
Good luck @C-Kat! I hope you find your spot in the sun.
(edited to fix a problem with a quote)