You might underestimate how interesting people find you, Ms. des Larmes.
Capsuleering is a weird profession anyway. Most of us are at least arguably horrible people in one way or another (usually having to do with sheer volume of bloodshed if nothing else), but that often doesn’t slow us down a lot when it comes to getting along with each other socially. Outside certain specific, usually political, situations, real bitterness is even a little rare.
And that’s even outside cases where someone’s story looks intriguing.