I think you are comparing apples and oranges here. But in cases like These you can Count on minerbumping to provide some real comparison. I was going there to look for some rl threats I remembered when in fact they made a case study of the whole incident. They reach the following conclusion:
This, happens all the time. Highsec carebears encourage other players to commit suicide even more often than they make threats of real-life harm.
Look it up at http://www.minerbumping.com/. It’s a good read,