As discussed in another thread, I can’t quite understand why you think having friends is a bad thing. “Blue donuts” as you put it, allow for the elimination of such things as TZ tanking. We take protection contracts seriously enough that we will call up favours and ask for help from our friends when we need it.
The timer was outside our active TZ so our friends and allies agreed to help out - no isk changed hands. The client knew the risk with the timers he had set. You managed to destroy one structure and that was before Horde arrived after which you lost ships that cost more than twice the structure that you destroyed.
Please, if you want to consider this a victory, then fine go ahead but I think most will consider you deluded.
Get a new tune, this one is getting very boring very quickly.