You can’t sign up for the jungle that is EVE and then ask for the rules to be changed. If you didn’t know what you signed up for, then that’s your fault. if you knew and now aren’t satisfied, go play something else.
Do you also play chess and demand that the rules of the game are changed for your personal liking?
This approach towards Life itself is seriously unhealthy in the long term (both mentally and physically) and you should seek help that enables you to improve your real life, instead of running away from it. Your desire for further isolation will only make things worse for you, and will further disconnect you not only from reality, but also from yourself.
And this tells me you’re dishonest, because nothing in EVE ever was safe. And topping that, there is far less aggression nowadays due to far less people doing it.