Hello Kezrai,
I will be quick rather than in-depth, and give you one fast one. Wading through this thread: A Open Letter to CCP and Players, changes need to be made for good was what made me pen my little rant. Most of the other treads that I read that bring up the toxicity of PvP in EvE get moved to the Nerf Ganking Megathread (Nerf Ganking Megathread - #5705 by Geminus_Duolphus).