Ok edited this. I can confirm its not my router, as soon as i got back from work i uninstalled eve completely deleted eve folder reinstalled fully. Then i ran 2 sites they ran perfect. log off for few hours decided to do 2 more and the first site i did ran into problems with it stuttering occasionally under virgin media router. That was also with chat log to file and message types to log all turned off so its not related at least i think to the other thread with stuttering issues.
Not much more i can do now i gave ccp precise instructions what i do and tried so many different settings and things now. ccp did change something i noticed on patch day for launcher sm_3_0_hi to sm_3_0_low did increase fps alot but not fixed issue.