All in all the complaint is most absurd if you consider that Jita 4-4 has had this big upgrade to be the biggest station in all of EVE with the biggest hitbox and everything.
If you can dock safe somewhere safe in EVE, even without any bookmarks then it is Jita 4-4.
Unless of course you don’t want to think or learn after the failure to do so.
That’s the issue. If you got that far in the game, you should be aware of “instadock” bookmarks. Do some research to understand how to do them and how to use them. Similarly, look for insta-undock bookmarks.