And are you the exception? Because I’m slowly getting the impression of Dracvlad levels of self-importance here.
It is possible two different anecdotes are true simultaneously. I have also had this experience. I decided to share an anecdote of when I attempted to break the mould. Of trying to live an experience with myself plus the strangers in my local constellations, beyond just me and 1 system. If my personal experiences and conclusions bother you, go do it yourself, break the mould and offer the public free boosts in high sec, and report back.
It doesn’t counter my point? These were people that didn’t warp when flashy reds enter system. They didn’t warp when catalysts showed up on D-Scan. They didn’t even attempt to align when the cata’s showed up on overview on-grid. They continued mining still as their ships were locked, scrammed, and blew up. I’m not mean-spirited enough to assume you’d do the same: you’d warp out at some point in that sequence.
You’re overly attached to very specific details of my anecdote about “flashy reds in local”. I’m sorry if I gave you the false impression that only chinking away at parts of it would somehow change my mind. You’ve made clear you are putting thought into your piloting. Nice! However, like you said, you and I are not everyone else.
Your continuous need to invalidate my personal experince of trying to exert my will in all sorts of unconventional non-ISK-positive ways in New Eden is especially not welcome. When you’re comfortable enough with your own piloting to start doing all sorts of weird things, testing the boundaries of other peoples’ behaviors, then let me know what you find. What you won’t find, is me telling you “you’re wrong and your experiences are wrong”.
This is my way of saying: If you ■■■■ on people who tried to do genuinely nice things for coming to a negative conclusion, you’re not making the “good guys” look good.
You’re still welcome to judge me for “trying to do something nice”, “failing at doing something nice”, “coming to the ‘wrong’ conclusion”, “breaking the mould”, “being ISK inefficient and breaking the mould”, whatever. “He’s a pussy”, “he’s a ganker sympathizer”, “he’s a carebear”, “he’s toxic”, “he’s a loony”, “he’s a most adequate pilot” (there’s a story behind that one), whatever. Frankly, I don’t give a damn. I at least did a thing once.