The possibility of discussion is a great achievement already
Carnage is always an option, just not the only one.
(Also, consider that not beign anti-something is not the same as pro-something)
Would it be too absurd to cede/lease/lend a small part of K-Space if it meant a forward base for the Triglavian effort against the Drifters?
Of course the scale of it might frighten people as manipulating an entire star system/constellation/region is an engineering feat that is way way way beyond what we are used to, but is it that different from changing the flow of a river to achieve a certain purpose?
Some parents regard their children as something that is on their way, and do their pressing things disregading the impact on them.
Others, manage to take the time to accomodate their needs and well being while they do their pressing things.
There are also those that not only take care of their children, but also explain what they are doing, why they are doing it, and are willing to listen to them and adjust the way they do their pressing things based on the feedback.